Assalaamu 'alaikum
Hi. My husband is looking for a second wife and has asked me to assist in the process. He wants his wives to be friends and believes that from the very begining we should get along. I guess that is why I am begining the search!
Let me first explain that he doesn't plan to marry for about another year,possibly a year and a half. We are in the process of moving and he needs to find another job etc.
He is a caring man who is striving in the path of Allah (swt). He is a wonderful provider ( a definite hard worker). His manner is even tempered and relaxed. He has his MA in Law. My husband was raised in France and speaks fluent French along with English and Arabic.
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As-SalamuAlikum I read your email,sentto meby a friend.. I am interestedin newing more?

Why on earth are you doing this? I've known sisters like you in the past but have never understood this psychology.

Signed, your sister

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem
As salaamu alaykum wa rahmatullhi wa barakatuhu
Dear sister Masha'allah I think that helping your husband in look for your co-wife is a beauitful thing. And not many women can handle that. So as long as Allah(swt)has bless you in that way then insha'allah you will continue to do it for the sake of Allah(swt). Don't worry about what is said, because for the peace that you are going for, will be much greater in reward that any human can ever give you credit for Ameen P.s keep the search going and assit the ummah with with the best kind of Da'wah (by example) Insha'allah May Allah (swt) continue to guide us on the stright path Allah humma Ameen

asalamu alaikum,
Why does your husband even want another wife?
Do you have children?
I know that this is halal, but please think about
this and pray to Allah for guidance.
I was once like you, looking for a wife for my
husband. He SAID it was for children, but we had
very good insurance that covered IVF and he
refused to try that first, well if your only
concern is for children, why dont you try???
And then I was looking for a sister for him, I
found 3 sisters for him all practcing the deen one
was a widow, very poor, and she had memorized the
entire Quran Masha'Allah. But no one was good
enough. LAter on I found out that he refused all
these sisters because he already knew who he
wanted to marry, a woman that he had a phone
"relationship" with for over a year.
He married her, lying to me all the way, and of
course she wasn't a practising muslim, and the
first thing she said to my husband is "divorce the
first wife"
She told me things about me and my husband that
never should have been discussed with her, things
that never should have left the bedroom.
To make a long story short, after 2 years of that
Hell my husband put me through, I am now divorcing
him (legally) and waiting for him or an alim to
give me Talaq.
To all that know him my husband is a good and
pious Muslim, no one can believe the things he has
done.
Please sister be careful,protect yourself

Alsalam Alikum,

your add on muslim-canada.org

I am a very good muslim 32 years old, Syrian living in UAE , tall 187 cm , handsome , well stabled and highly educated.
looking for another wife since my wife can't have children and she doesn't mind me getting married,
and i do think it's not good for a muslim to divorce his wife because she can't have children .
i know that this is a womens corner but i thing that i might find some of yours interested in my add , if so kindly reply.
email:[email protected]

Asalam Alaikum Sister
I was sad to hear your account and am posting this to let you know that we deal with many many similar cases and that youre not alone .... Our organisation can help you in many ways to establish emotional stability and re-marry with good faith and confidence ... to a Allah-fearing and accountable muslim ... this is by way of Spiritual Meditation ... Please (if you feel comfortable enough) forward here your email address so that we may give you advice via email only in order to secure your confidentiality and security
Wasalam
Humah

Assalamo aleikum !
We belive what u are doing for your husband is good thing , its hard in this donya but good for akhira inshallah. And dont forget that Allah LOVES
the patients (SABERIN) ones for his sake.
we are cowifes since one year ago.
your sisters in islam um suleyman and um yones.

Assallamualaikom Wbt,

I am posting this ad on behaft of my husband. He is a good Muslim of 43 years old. We are seeking a sincere & good Muslimah for the sake of Allah SWT and the Sunnah of our beloved Prophet (Muhammad SAW). We prefer a religious widowed/divorced (age 25-41, under 5' 3") and Arabic language background (UK based). We strongly believe that, all the Sunnah are good and there are lots of "the hidden hikmah" behind it (Polygamy) i.e. teaching & helping each other, etc. for the sake of Allah SWT. If interested, please reply to [email protected], ASAP. May Allah SWT bless us. Ameen.