I would really like someone to answer this question for me. I am young and unmarried and i want to ask you if it is permissible to have "crushes"_ to like a muslim guy.


but this to the extent that you do not do something unislamic, just about the feeling. is it right? is it permissible?

i will be most thankful if someone could reply soon.

wasalaam

Assalamu Alaykum sister
Firstly how could you have a crush on the brother in the first place. You must have looked enough at this brother to realise you liked him. This in itself is not permissible. We are told to lower our gaze to preven t things like this happening. Do you know the brother. If so why not get someone from your family to find out if he is married, that would be more halal for you.
I reccomend that you stay away from wherever this brother is and if you cannot control your desires or find it tough then I suggest you fast. This is from Shaytan and you need to fight these feelings.
I hope this has helped a little
Your sister
Safiyyah

the feelings are gone now, crushes come and go, i have no sentiments towards him now and o, he is unmarried too.

thank you for ur help sister safiyah,

Allah hafiz

im 12 and i have a crush at school what do i do?

Pay attention to your studies and devote your time to remembering Allah and not thinking of the boy. I'm on this great mailing list, i would to share it with you all. Alhamdulillah great way to learn about islam and increase our knowledge :)

groups.yahoo.com/group/aajooba