Assalamo Alaikum,
Two years ago my husband decided to take a second wife because I might not be able to give him a child. He told me after he did. I was very disappointed in him because I sacrificed my life for him for over 20 yrs. He never told me that he wanted to have children so bad like that. Im in a verge of a nervous breakdown right now.
I dont think I can go through my life being very unhappy with my situation. I need someone to advice me or tell me their experience about polygamy bcoz over the past 2 yrs I have been blocking it off in my mind to the point that I need to deal with it before I will end my marriage. My husband is good to me and I have always been good to him too...Should I sacrifice my happiness and watch him have a family with another woman....hmmmmm i dont think I can!!!

Alwayz4evah

Assaalm Alakium,
My name is Haneefah and I've never been in this situation but, I have friends who have. I dont see how people can do it. Stay with their husband if he has more than one wife. It makes you feel like your not doing something right. It didnt work out with my friends who's been in a polygamous marriage. I know you love him but this is something your gonna have to work out with you and your husband. But if it was me I'd ask for a divorce.