Assaalm Alakium Sisters. This is sister Rabee'ah. I just wanted to say that I know ploygany is lawful in Islam but, it's something that I would'nt want to be associated with.I would feel uncomfortable sharing my husband with another woman. I think that since brothers have that degree over us some feel as though that they can do what they want. Marry up to 4 wives and not even provide for all of them. I thought that if you was married, and your the first wife, you have the say so on if he can have another wife. I read a sister message saying, when will polygany be legal in the U.S.? I can tell you that it will never be leagal! Marriage by islam is not even recongized by state. What do you sisters think?