By Queen on Sunday, June 9, 2002 - 09:34 am:
As salaamu alaikum warahmatullah
This subject may be a bit delicate yet some are in it all day long everyday. So ladies let's talk
and help one another, suttle charity has it's weight also.
What is to be said of a husband who is his wife's
worst and constant critic?
She bares it and bares it.. SUBHANA RABBIL ATHDEEM
Some says it's a form of having to put another down to build up onesself.
I say perhaps jealousy and or inadequecy on the husband's part-maturely, financially, the lack of
experience, bad previous relations, poor upbringing and just chaotic views about life, muslims, etc may all be a factor. But how do one help a brother of this type?.. The sister may very
well be a devout servant of ALLAAH, the whole kit
and kaboodle. ALLAAHU ALIM.
All responses and views are welcomed..
Laailaha'illALLAAH
SUBHANA RABBIL ATHDEEM
By Anonymous ( - 207.160.170.162) on Sunday, December 15, 2002 - 04:08 pm:
Again, as salaamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu
A subject no one wanted to touch eh?
Laailahaill'ALLAH.
OUR DEEN SHOULD BE FOR ALLAH!
ok, similar subject but from another angle:
I know a sister and brother who are actually struggling everyday to be aright with one another as husband and wife, yet the brother is a few years younger than his wife and too he seems to have just issues of not keeping stable work, immature reactions, etc... so anyways things do get violent between the sister and brother physically and more than once the brother transgressed upon the sister physically. Anyways, they turn to the community for islamic assistance and advice and what they get often is 'o' brother you should divorce the woman... as though no emotions should be involved between the two, and too bias-ism on the part of brothers with regards to women (especially) black american reverts.
So what is ones knowledge or even view of such situations?
Because the two brother and sister just chose to work things themselves, he take anger management classes for 10 weeks insha'ALLAAH... and they two move to another state that perchance the people are more in tune with correcting mistakes and helping muslims to grow.