I come into contact with a lot of men in their late thirties and forties, usually non-Muslim, and I have had countless proposals to have an affair. I am in a male-dominated profession, and get to deal with men who travel alot. I get to see what they get up to behind their wives backs, and having affairs seems to be the norm rather than the exception. I therefore cannot possibly condemn any decent Muslim man who wants to marry again rather than have an affair.

I would like to add that I am attracted to men a little older than I am, and by this age they are usually married with kids, so I don't have much of a choice left.

Does anyone know a good site in which to advertise?

As-Salamu Aleiki,
Dear Sister in Islam:

I'm interested in discussing matters with you. I can provide additional details through e-mail. I'm a well-educated professional living in north-America, and searching for a co-wife.

Allah Hafiz was-Salam,
Alwasil.

Not to be mean or rude what if a man can't have children can a woman pick another husband ?

hmmmmm,

It is just as much as a woman's right to seek
children as men. The woman is designed of a nurturing entity. Be she an mother, aunt, etc.
So even with this, if she is clear that it the husband who cannot have children then me of my small understandings would say 'yes' she may marry
after divorce from kthe impotent hubby another man whom she may insha'ALLAH share children with. But please continue to ask around on this.