Assalamo aleikom wa rahmatullah wa barakatuhu.

All praise is for Allah. We praise him and seek his help and forgiveness. We seek refuge in Allah from the evil of ourselves and the wickedness or our own deeds. Who ever Allah guides,cannot be lead astray and whoever Allah misguides, none can guide him. I bear witness that none has the right to be worshipped except Allah, alone without associate and I bear witness that Mohammed is his slave and messenger. Allah praise him and send peace upon him, his household,and his companions and all those who follow them in righteousness till the Day of Reckoning.


We are two sisters in islam who share husband. Who wants to meet other muslim cowifes to discuss the good and hard things to be more than one. who can share experiences and good advice from the Qoran and sunna.

Wife 1.
Im 22 years old,and I expect my third child Alhamdullilah. I have been married for five years with a good husband,Alhamdulilah.
My husband has spoke about to take a seckond wife more or less since we married. And one year ago he find a good sister Mashallah. Me and the sister know each other many years.

Wife 2
Im 38 years old,and I have been married soon one year and Im pregnent with my first child in this marrige,Alhamdullilah. It has been a year with much laugh and tears.

It has been a very hard year for both of us,in different way.
PLEASE WRIGHT TO US.We need to discuss with sisters with the same situation.

Wa salam from sisters.

Salaamu alaikum

You two are sitting down together
writing posts? Yall do not have
polygamy turmoils...alhamdulillah.
And if you did you have surpassed
them, so keep up the good work and
hey create another subject. insha'ALLAH

Asalamu Alaikum wa rahmatulahi wa barakatu

At this point i need to speak to sisters who are going thru what i might soon be faced with, Insha Allah i will love to contact you, but i would really like to keep my identity out of the bulletin board for now, i would love it if you can give me a way to contact you please, i desperately need it.
You may be able to help me for the sake of Allah subhana wata ala.

Barakafiki, your sister.

as salaam alaikum my name is naddiyah and i
desperatly need sisters to talk with on this issue.please e-mail me at [email protected]

being a married mature woman I can understand the needs of the men who need a second wife.. I also have some needs as a human. so I also need to have a second husband.. I believe, Quran respecting the needs of all muslims equally, man or woman, allows this for woman as well.. I advise all woman to keep the path of islam..

Assalamu Alaikum....
I am looking for some naseehah from cowives or first wives on how they dealt with the husband marrying another. I do not dislike polygamy, but i am having a hard time because my husband has admitted that his love for the other sister has caused him to feel differently towards me. Alhamdulillah we have rectified the situation and he has been treating me better, however, I am still uneasy because I feel that things have started on the wrong foot and when he does marry her (soon inshAllah), he will go back to disliking me again. I need to talk with sisters who have experienced a slight rejection or change of heart from their husband upon his second marriage, and I would like to know how they dealt with the situation. I am having real trust issues, and a lack of confidence in things being fair.Please email me

salamoaleikum 4 years on , it,s hard very hard mashallah to be co wifes. i am so sorry that i havent right any thing al this time kheir inshallah but i try now to anser any sister who want to right to me abute polygamy in islam, and please sisters don,t forget it,s a sunns from Mohamed (SAS) that we inshallah will have revard from Allah if we inshallah have saber withe it.